Monday, September 1, 2014

How we Bought our First House in Toronto in a Sellers Market-The Plan

(Disclaimer, I am not an expert on this! This post is solely based on our own experiences, talk to Real Estate Agents, Banks, Lawyers, Mortgage Brokers etc. for information and advice specific for your needs.)...

As mentioned in my previous post, this summer was an exciting one, especially since Mike and I bought a house!!! In the process I gathered a few lessons learned, that I couldn’t seem to find organized all together online, so I thought I would share my experience- in three parts: the plan, the hunt, and the close.



Part 1- The Plan 
To buy or not to buy?:
First, a long time ago, we had to decide if we were going to even buy a house. We have heard millions of opinions one way or the other for the past couple of years. In Toronto (and similar in Vancouver), financially, renting is, in general, the way to go. Experts say you can take the money you would save by not owning a home, invest it at 7% (historical values), and have way more money in a certain time period compared to owning a home. For us (and yes we did the math), the numbers came out pretty darn close, but having the autonomy of owning a house and not being responsible to a landlord was a big factor in our decision. Also, we were hoping to do some renovations and/or create a income suite to help make the house a better financial option than renting. Everyone is different, but our financial situation and lifestyle led us to the decision to buy a house. 


Save Money:
This step started way before we bought the house, but knowing for the past 3 years that we were working towards home ownership made us stick to a budget. It also made sure that we didn’t get into a spending routine that wouldn’t fit our lives in the future, which will make the adjustment to home ownership more bearable. My advice for this is to maximize work savings programs (employee share plans and RRSP savings...more on this later), and take full advantage of TFSAs as soon as you can. I procrastinated moving money from a low return savings account to a TFSA because I was “afraid” to lock in my savings, but talking to someone at the bank made me realize I was ridiculous. I could have saved a lot more money the past 3 years if I had had that discussion the day I started working. Lesson learned.

How much Money?:
After saving for a few years we started seriously considering buying a house (once Mike was working full time), so we needed to figure out how much of a house we could afford. By using online calculators we had an idea, but we went to get pre-approved by a bank to make sure. Even for a pre-approval the bank needs to know that there enough of a down payment saved, so we were saving way before this point. Also consider the down payment %. Anything less than 20% will need CHMC mortgage insurance, which is expensive, and has additional closing costs. We had to determine if it was worth it to go with a lower %, or wait a few more years until we saved a 20% down payment. All those options and scenarios can be run on this great website: RateHub.ca

We also ran a few numbers to determine our monthly budget with a house at the pre-approved mortgage amount to make sure we wouldn’t be living on Kraft dinner for the next 5 years, using some of the values on the Ratehub website. I recommend Gail Vas-Oxlades budget worksheet. Some house budgeting tips:

1. 1% of the home price saved for maintenance annually
2. A good ball park for utilities is $300 a month for a small house (from Rate Hub)
3. Don’t forget property taxes
4. Consider new monthly expenses above and beyond the house (additional transit costs, increases in car insurance etc.)
5. 10% of take home should be kept in savings and 3-6 months of living expenses should be saved in an emergency fund. Don’t consider the house a “savings account” since the money is locked in into the house.
6. Cut any unneeded expenses, for us it was cable. Not having cable was a small sacrifice to lead to being home owners!
7. (General budgeting tip) For me I consider I get 2 pay cheques a month all year, the extra 2 paycheques during the year are “extra money” compared to my budget, and I can use that for savings, or for travel, or big purchases but it is a nice contingency amount to keep on a yearly basis.

Research the market: 
Just because we weren’t in a financial position to buy 3 years ago (Mike was still in school), it didn’t stop us from starting our search. We checked out different neighborhoods, and started looking at MLS.ca and Zoocasa for housing prices.
First pass at favourite neighbourhoods
This quickly showed us that our dream neighborhoods (Runnymeade, Bloorwest, Swansea, Roncesvalle) were definitely out of our assumed price range, and narrowed down our selection. We also could have used this neighbourhood matching service from Realosophy to find a neighbourhood that met our needs. I also considered things like commuting time, walking scores, crime rates, and gentrification of the neighborhood. For us we knew we wanted to be fairly close to downtown and near the water, and west of the city, which focused our searching in the lake shore communities of Mimico, Long Branch, and New Toronto. 

Our search area

We even went to a few open houses to get a feel for what we could buy in each area for our price range, just for fun. The lesson learned here was to remember that at this point we were only browsing. Mike and I found a house we loved way too early in the process, and almost put in an offer before we had even talked to a realtor or understood ANY thing about the home buying process. I’m glad we waited, but it was a hard decision to make at the time.

Understanding our needs:
We had to figure out why we were buying a house, and what kind of house we wanted to buy. This may seem straightforward, but there were quite a few options. Condo vs house? Rental Property vs Fixer Upper? Detached or Semi? We had to ask ourselves what we want in a property. For us we wanted a detached house that provided some income possibility.  I preferred a two story, but that was negotiable. We only need two bedrooms at this time, so we were ok with a smaller house, but we definitely considered our “five year plan”.  In a hot market like Toronto, and for our price range, we knew we had to keep our "must have list" pretty short to find a house. If we had started searching thinking we were going to get a HGTV home, we would have been very disappointed.

By narrowing down the price, location and type of dwelling we were fairly well prepared to go talk to a realtor, without being overwhelmed by all the options.

Next post: The Hunt

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Kay and Mike Take Toronto by Bike: Leslieville


Whenever I blog and say I have free time, I disappear from blogging for a month or two. This summer flew by with some big life stuff, some trips east and west, and a lot of hot yoga. I would like to blog about all that at some point, but for now, another Bike adventure!

This time we stuck within the GTA and went East. I have lived in Toronto for 3 years and can probably count the number of times I've gone East of the Don Valley on one hand, so for this Bike adventure we headed east to Leslieville and to the Food Truck Festival!

The Majestic Don River

It was a gorgeous day, not too hot, but warm enough to feel like summer! And it was a much easier route than our last adventure. We drove East on Queen, crossed the bridge, and we were in a whole other world...

Bridge Nerd
Just kidding, we were in Riverdale, but we continued forth on our epic journey to Leslieville.

Fun facts about Leslieville (thanks Wikipedia): 
1. Was named after a dude who ran the Toronto Nurseries there in the 1850s 
2. The neighbourhood gentrified from 2000-2010, and is considered up and coming (ooo ahhh)
3. It houses Canada's LARGEST WASTE WATER TREATMENT PLANT!! (which I'm strangely sad I didn't go visit.)

After another few kilometres, we arrived at our destination, Woodbine Park:
Ooo green space

Free music, and FOOD TRUCKS!! 

I should note at this point, I had just finished a double yoga class and a 8km bike ride, so I was pretty excited to dig in! Mike had Ossobuco Gnocchi Poutine and I had a Gourmet Gringos Burrito. NOMMM. 
This is my excited face

Tasted better than it looked

The whole thing was sponsored by the Indie88 radio station, and we both got a sweet pair of glasses. 
Ignore my gross hair here, as I said, a double yoga class happened before this!
After getting food in my belleh, we walked down to Woodbine Beach and relaxed for a while near the beach.
Not bad for a lake

Apparently all that relaxing made me hungry, so on the way home we grabbed some ice cream. We lucked out in this place, because it was extra delicious. I got some pear frozen yogurt, and Mike got some sort of chocolate peanut butter mixture.




Pretty delicious way to end our Leslieville Adventure! They say that the side of Toronto that you first move to is the side you stay on, and so far I definitely know more about west of Yonge, but I really liked Leslieville. It had a beachey, cottagey feel, with lots of old trees. And that ice cream was amazing! Very cool neighbourhood! 

Next adventure will most likely be the in the south-west part of the city, since that is where WE ARE MOVING!  WHAT??!! NEWS!?!?! But for now I'll leave it like that...to be continued! 





Saturday, June 28, 2014

Kay and Mike Take Toronto By Bike: Dundas ON





Now that I have free time, I thought it would be fun to start a blog series of bike adventures. Mike and I have made it an unofficial goal to visit as many neighbourhoods as possible in Toronto via public transit and biking. This is a multiyear adventure, and has no order, very few rules, and no deadline. For a type A perfectionist this goes against everything I normally do. The only rule with bike club is that we don’t talk about bike club. Just kidding! The only rule is that we have to get there without using a car, and then I have to blog about it.

This past weekend was official adventure number 1..and technically the heading of this series is already wrong because we actually went to the Hamilton/Burlington region on our first bike adventure..I’m a rebel without a cause!

Anyway back to the point. We went to Burlington to go to the Mountain Equipment Co-op Paddlefest Event at Christie Lake to meet up with some friends and try out some canoeing. I had gone to paddle fest in Barrie the day before, and enjoyed it so much, I thought it was worth checking out again.

We decided to make this a bike adventure when we did the math and between gas and parking it was about the same price to go train and then bike. Plus going on a train makes it an adventure!! We packed our lunches, some snacks, and hopped on the go train around 10:30 to Aldershot. On the weekend you can take your bike on the gotrain, and they were quite comfy on the route.


We arrived in Aldershot, turned on the GPS, and headed on our 20km ride to Christie Lake. I don’t trust GPSs and I shouldn’t have in this case. Penny (as we have named the voice on Mike’s phone GPS), lead us on the “scenic route”. At first it was all fun and games, rolling countryside, and pretty views on our way to Dundas.






Dundas is an adorable town with lots of old buildings, cute shops and restaurants. I really wish I had planned this better and we could have grabbed lunch there! Unfortunately we were on a deadline to get to the park by 1:30, so we didn’t stop. At this point our bike ride became more of a climb as we walked up the escarpment. Check out these inclines.




Now I wish I had stopped to take a picture from the lookout at the top because it was pretty nice, but instead I took a picture of this sign because I thought it was hilarious that you came up this giant hill, and then you go “oh bullocks, it keeps going up!!”


The last 7km were all up hill. Considering this was my first long bike ride, and Mike’s first bike of the year, our legs were pretty shot when we got to the park. It took us about 2 hours to do the route, which is a pretty slow pace, but nothing unexpected with those crazy climbs.

We finally made it to the park (albeit on the completely opposite side than paddlefest), we scarfed down our lunch, and then did a canoe lesson for an hour. Our friends kindly offered a drive back to the go train station after, so we relaxed at the lake until they were done their sessions. We ended up back in Toronto around 7:00pm, completely exhausted but happy knowing we had spent the whole day outside!

Lessons learned from this adventure: Take more pictures, not just of silly signs. Plan to stop in adorable towns. Wear longer shorts (leg chaffing is real!). Research the route before setting out. And finally, get my bike fixed. My front tire is bent so with every revolution it’s like I’m putting on the breaks, which didn’t bode so well on the hills! The next adventure I should be more prepared, and may be slightly less ambitions…I’m thinking Queen West ha!

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Spring Catch Up

Wooo summer time!!

I thought I would stop in and update you all on my life since I have been a bad blogger and haven’t posted in almost 2 months!!!

So what have I been doing all this time?

1. Tutoring! I feel like exam season lasted extra long this year, and I just wrapped things up this week. Ending tutoring is always bittersweet because as much as I am happy to have a little more free time, it’s always a little sad to wrap things up with my students, especially if they are in their last year! Since then though I have had some glorious free evenings that I spent watching Orange is the New Black, and BBQing and enjoying some sunsets on my balcony. It feels like I am on vacation!



2. Biking!

I got a new bike after mine was unceremoniously stolen last year. It is pink with zebra handle bars and it is amazing.


I am thoroughly enjoying my new way of commuting. While I was tutoring I would get Mike to drop off my bike up in the neighborhood I was tutoring in, I would transit from work up to my bike, and then bike to tutoring(s), and then after I would bike the 10 km home. For those familiar with Toronto, Russell Hill Rd, or Bike route 35, became my route of choice and I enjoyed biking through swanky Forrest Hill and near Casa Loma! It was also pretty neat to watch the season’s change over the course of the 8 weeks I spent biking home. In May, it was still pretty cold out, and by 9:00pm the streets were empty. I didn’t see a soul until I got down to at least St. Clair but then as the weather started getting warmer and the nights longer, more people were out and about enjoying this long awaited summer! 

More biking posts are definitely to come this summer! The picture above is actually from our first bike adventure that definitely deserves its own post!

3. Hot Yoga!

I have decided this summer to skip the triathlon (mostly because I am out of town for the races that are interesting to me), and instead I’m doing a 60 classes in 92 days hot yoga challenge. So far I have done 16 classes, and I’m on track. Considering I was trying to juggle exam week(s) tutoring and yoga, I’m hoping I will continue to stay on track over the summer!

4. House hunting!

Since the end of April, Mike and I have started house hunting out in the Mimico/New Toronto/Long Branch area. As much as I love real estate, and looking at houses is fun, house hunting is stressful and annoying, especially in a seller’s market. So far we have seen probably about 25 houses, and we have been seriously interested in 3 and bid and lost on 2. The whole experience has been a good learning experience, and I think I’m going to write some more blog posts about it, mostly because I can’t find anything online that would have prepared me for this.

5. Breaking Bad!

When I wasn’t busy with all of the above, most of my free time was spent watching all 62 episodes of breaking bad. Holy amazing show batman. I put off watching it for a while for two reasons, one I thought it might have been too “intense”, and also I knew once I started watching it I wouldn’t stop. And I was right about the 2nd part, I became completely addicted (ironic J). At the end I was kind of glad it was over so I could get my life back!! (And by get my life back I mean watching Orange is the New Black Season 2).

And that was my past 2 months in a nut shell, a whirlwind of yoga, tutoring, commuting, and house hunting! 

What have you all been up too? Anyone else getting hooked by Netflix?

Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Matrimony Wednesday-A Wedding Breakdown Structure

Once Mike and I got engaged, I started making a Master list to get my thoughts in order...what do we need to have a wedding? It was scrawled on 4 pages of looseleaf and shoved into a binder. Then I went to pinterest and started pinning pretty pictures of center pieces.


The MASTER LIST
Obviously a wedding just doesn’t happen from making a list and pinning pretty pictures and since the months are ticking by we decided it was time to get organized.

In project management there is a term called work breakdown structure (WBS). You look at a project by area, and then break down that area into small manageable pieces. It helps manage the schedule and budget.

Being the nerd that I am, I decided to create a WBS for the wedding.

The overall areas are:

0000-General
1000-Location
2000-Rehearsal
3000-Ceremony
4000-Reception
5000-Photos
6000-Wedding Party
7000-Guests
8000-Other

Within each of the areas I have started breaking them down to small manageable pieces based on my giant list:

Example:
  • 0000- General
    • 0100 Decorations
      • 0110-Lighting
      • 0120- Center Pieces
      • 0130-Flowers
        • 0131 Decorations
        • 0132 Bouquets
        • 0133 Boutonnieres
      • 0140-Fabric
      • 0150- Misc
        • 0151 Mason Jars
        • 0152 Cake Stand

You get the idea. If anyone wants the full WBS just let me know and I can email it you!

After we made the WBS (on excel), we made a tab for each general area, and started making to do lists for each sub category. We gave each task a date based on a few key Milestones from wedding planning websites: (lots of info here), but we choose our own key points based on things “needed” for a wedding.

18 Months- Book Photographer/Caterer/Location/Officiant (DONE YAY)
12 Months- Save the Date
6 Months-Invitations
Then we can look at what needs to be done to make those milestones happen (for example, for the Save the date we need engagement photos and our guest list mostly finalized, so we can start working backwards from those points, as well as making the ongoing lists (collecting decorations etc.)

Now to the play on words part- Wedding “Breakdown” structure. After making this very detailed list that has everything from Cake to Portapotties (and so far is almost 100 items long), it could induce a breakdown! Ha!

But there are few things keeping me calm. First of all, I actually like big event planning, and I’m lucky because so does Mike! He got equally excited when I suggested a WBS style to do list with progress dates and milestones. Second of all, breaking the whole thing into “bite sized” chunks helps us stay focused. The past two weeks we have been focused on starting the guest list and choosing the wedding party. Next will come preparing anything we need to do when we are home this summer (engagement photos, meeting with the caterer etc.). So if my brain starts to wonder about wedding favours, or even wedding dress shopping, I just calm myself down by saying it’s not time yet!

The most important thing that is keeping us calm is the fact that we have a list of must haves: an officiant, family and friends attending, and a photographer to capture the moment, and food and shelter to keep our friends and family happy. Anything above and beyond that is nice, but it isn’t what the day is all about. Keeping grounded and not stressing about what exact flowers we are going to have, or what exact suits the groomsmen are going to wear hopefully will continue to help us throughout the planning. And when those items come up on the to-do list we will make a decision and move to the next item!

Will my logical project planning side of my brain fade away as the wedding gets closer..stay tuned to find out!

Anyone else have tips on how to handle the mega to-do list? Anyone else make a WBS for their wedding?

Saturday, April 26, 2014

Reaching a Fitness Milestone- 12 Week Challenge

Fitness Friday Saturday:

As I mentioned in this post, since the end of January I was doing a Healthy Living Challenge with a few friends. Basically we all put in 20 dollars, and then collected points over the span of 4 and then 8 weeks for doing healthy things and then at the end whoever had the most points gets all the money. After 12 weeks of monitoring my fruit and veggies, water, exercise, and "treats", I am happy to report that finished the challenge tied for 1st for points...yay money!!

Lets back up a bit though...
Last winter/spring I kind of fell off of the healthy food and fitness routine. Not too bad, but I decided that it wasn't the main priority in my life at that time. Then to get back on track I started my triathlon training and started counting calories. After a summer of intense exercise and seeing results I was so scared that I was going to fall off the wagon again. I didn't want to lose the fitness level I had developed, I wanted to keep going. So I continued going to the gym 3-4 times a week, and as usual tried to eat healthy 85% of the time (I stopped calorie counting and focused more on general healthy choices). Around August I started tracking my weight more regularly, and from August-January I was losing about 1lb a month.

 In January I was at my low "plateau weight" and needed some motivation to keep going (no upcoming runs/fitness challenges were scheduled), so the challenge was actually perfectly timed for me. And as much as I complained the whole time while doing it there were things I liked and will keep doing:


  • The challenge encouraged me to exercise more! I went from 4x a week to 6-7 times a week.  In fact for March, I did a little challenge within a challenge and moved every single day! My exercise routine now is 3x hot yoga, 1x intense Cardio, 1x Strength, 1x boot camp, 1x Active Rest (walk or bike ride).  It may seem a little intense, but I actually love working out this much, especially when it is outside!
Sweaty mess after a NTC workout

Recent bike ride views, much better than the gym!

  • A treat should be just that...a treat (vs a cheat...I don't like thinking that a dessert, or a glass of wine is a BAD thing, it is just something to be enjoyed in moderation). We have free cookies at work...everyday, and even though it is only 100 or so calories, I don't need it! I should save those 100 calories for something I really want...like Birthday PIE, or homemade brownies!
Scaramouch Pie...Best. Thing. Ever.  

All about the balance!
  • I feel better when I drink more water/eat more veggies. Tracking water was actually something I had started doing before the challenge, and I want to keep up with, and eating vegetables and fruit makes me full and healthy (even though people at work thing I am a BIG health freak with my daily carrot sticks and hummus!) 
All the waters, and all the veggies!

With the weight lost during the challenge I'm now at my lowest weight that I can remember (probably end of highschool/first year). Since the end of university I have lost 20lbs, and about 10% body fat. (WHOA). Since August alone I have lost 12 lbs, and 2-3% body fat. And its only been with the last five pounds lost on the challenge that I feel like my body "changed overnight". Suddenly all of my clothes are too big, and suddenly, I have muscles in places I didn't even think I could have muscles (whatt...I have muscular definition in  my stomach now???). 

And it is weird, people are noticing it! In just the past week quite a few people have commented on how much weight I have lost, as if it happened overnight. I read on-line that it takes 4 weeks for you to notice changes, 8 weeks for your family to notice, and 12 weeks for others to notice..and I guess that is right! 

Going out for my Birthday! Finally figured out the whole red lip trend!
And I don't want this to come across as braggy..but I'm posting these results because I am shocked by them too!  I haven't restricted my diet or my calories (in fact I wrote this post while eating tortilla chips and salsa), I'm not working out countless hours a day...I'm just trying to make small healthy choices most of the time! Getting down to this weight and being this healthy was not during a 100 day challenge, or some short term I want to lose x by y date challenge, or by doing some sort of crash diet (no cabbage soup for me!). It was just a decision I made to keep eating healthy and working out. I want to be healthy my whole life, not just during a challenge or training, and I think making that life long commitment to being healthy is what has actually allowed me to get to my healthiest (so far...I'm not stopping now..I still have a fitness bucket list that includes one day doing a pull up!)


And here is a obligatory before and after picture from me in 2011, about 10 lbs heavier than I am now (so about my same weight this past summer)! Once again...I am shocked of the change myself!....I keep thinking it is just the photo angles or something :).

2011
 


 


2014



Anyone else have success stories/work in progress stories? Anyone else now craving coconut cream pie???


Tuesday, April 15, 2014

5 Truths about Being a Grown Up

So I had a Birthday this week. For some reason something about being 26 seems a lot older than being 25… and I don’t like it.  I tutor a lot of high school students, most are 10 years younger than me, and I have heard them say many times "I can't wait to be an adult"...and maybe it is because the "older" I am getting the more I am realizing that being an "grown up" isn't all we thought it was cracked up to be.

Jenna Marbles already covered this in her “I Hate Being a Grown up” video, and there are multiple buzzfeed lists about the topic but I thought I would share my own 5 Truths about being a Grown Up:

Truth # 1: You have so many appointments, and they all cost money.

Appointments always sneak up on me and are always during the busiest week or at the most inconvenient times/locations.



Why yes dentist appointment I made 6 months ago, thank you for having me reschedule all of my tutoring. And there are always hidden costs. Go to the dentist (even with insurance): 50-100 bucks. Bring the cats to the vet: 200 bucks, Get winter tires off car: Couple Hundred bucks. (Being a grown adult: priceless. Ha.)

Truth #2: There are no magic house elves to clean for you
It is a tough life lesson to realize that if you don’t pick up your stuff, no one else will. You now have to deal with things like CLEANING THE BATHROOM. And DOING DISHES. And dealing with MOUNTAINS of LAUNDRY!
And all that stuff takes so much darn time! You could always try to delegate if you have a sig.other...but sometimes their version of a clean bathroom is just taking everything out of the bathroom and leaving on the "den" floor.
To be fair, the bathroom was clean!
Truth #3 Responsible life choices become mandatory.
A couple years back a responsible life choice would have been studying for a midterm...or doing an assignment before the night before it was due. Now responsible life choices include things like saving for a house, or even saving for retirement. Or planning a wedding! Some way more grown up people than me are even starting to have to be responsible for living human beings! Terrifying! (Note that I am currently blogging to avoid making a responsible life choice and finishing my taxes.)

Truth #4 If you aren't tired, you aren't doing adulthood right. 


I would say I have an average energy level, get my 6-8 hours of sleep, eat healthy etc. (see truth 4 above, responsible life choices), but in talking with EVERY OTHER ADULT, everyone is just so darn tired. Working 1 or 2 jobs, or working towards a post grad, or caring for other human beings means that adulthood is full of yawns, and lack of naps. Also there is caffine involved. When I was a kid I would resist going to bed so much that I would make myself sick just to get to stay awake longer, now I'm like "I can go to bed early...yess!"

Truth #5 Having a social life and/or hobbies takes effort.
After working, cleaning/cooking, making responsible choices, saving money, and loving going to bed early, you realize it takes even more effort to make MORE PLANS! In school/university, there were many (mostly free) clubs to join, and you just basically showed up. You could try anything you wanted (sports, musical theatre, debate, trivia club..yes that was a thing and it was awesome), and have time to do your homework and go to class. Yes there are still a tons of things to do now as a "grown-up", but now it just takes more effort to find it, most of it costs money, and its hard to find the time to fit everything in! Also, in school/university, you are around your friends all the time, now you actually have to put in effort to see people IRL. And getting everyone together when you all have free time, that takes some serious planning!


Basically,if any teenager is reading this right now 16 is probably more "fun" than 26 but I will include a caveat though. At 26 I am (and I think most people are), more confident than 16, know more about who I am, and know what my 5 year plan is. And I can do things cool things like order a pizza at 3:00pm just because, or book a trip to calgary to visit my friends without consulting my parents.

And if you are a "more grown up" person reading this you are probably laughing at me and saying "oh you think it is bad now, just wait until you are 36/46 etc!" I get that part of life is growing up, and getting more independent, while at the same time being more responsible...but that is something I don't like thinking about too much...it really puts a damper on my nap time!

What Grown Up Truth would you add? Anyone else ride magic carpets to dentist appointments?